Yesterday was the death of my brother.
Unfortunately, his death wasn’t unexpected. His life of neglecting his health led to him becoming obese, which eventually lead to diabetic neuropathy, which left him a shadow of himself. It is strange that someone who worked as a paramedic and witnessed firsthand the consequences of poor lifestyle choices, would be so careless about his health. It was there, however, and it took its last toll yesterday.
My brother was an extreme person. He was open to trying new philosophies, practices and even politics. This made it a difficult relationship. We were sometimes inseparable at times and we weren’t always on the same page. But he was always my brother.
Our lives aren’t always influenced by the people we know. There are lessons to be taken from my brother’s life and death. These lessons can be viewed as lessons.
Your health isn’t your only concern. Most of us know people that love and care about us. These people are worth your consideration. Watch your diet. You should cut down on all chemicals. Keep your medical conditions under control by doing what is necessary. Scripture tells us, “You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.” While the direct reference is an admonishment against sexual immorality, it also precisely describes the argument against gluttony and other self-destructive habits denigrating that which is created in God’s image. Namely, us.
Second, do not make politics personal. My brother and I didn’t talk to each other for what turned out to be the last few years of his life due to political disagreements. You can have passionate, spirited debate with your family. Don’t assume that everything is fine. You can still rage at one another just because you are related. Your family should be treated the same way you would your friends. Although I cannot undo the events of recent years, there are lessons I can take away from them.
Get right, and you will be right with God. While none of us will ever be righteous forever, we’ll always be there. If you don’t know Christ, seek Him. Hold on to your faith, if not, It will be your strength.
So, as one circle expands and another shrinks. Our parents are now looking after our brother, who is free from the failing body and likely being lectured severely by his mother for not taking more care of him. We who stay will eventually pass and be followed by everyone who has come before or will follow us. Take time to enjoy and appreciate life. While weeping can last the night, we can rejoice in the morning.
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